I am sure you have heard it before. Your standards are too high…well, good for you, they should be!
Stop changing your “type” because you don’t think you deserve them.
Please don’t lower your standards because someone now is paying you attention. Just because this person is now paying you attention, doesn’t mean all your standards go out the window!! You need to teach people how to treat you. If you start tolerating bad behavior, the other person thinks it’s acceptable and will continue to behave badly. If you start to accept actions, communication or lack of communication, and other items that don’t serve you…that person that you already know wasn’t really good for you, will continue to treat you poorly because you are tolerating it. Stop tolerating the lack of love and affection and stick to your standards!
The best way to do this is by setting your boundaries and sticking to them! This will help you in the long run. Teaching you to love yourself and not tolerate bull sh*t. When you get your act together, love will follow. Love yourself. Know your worth, and you will receive the love you deserve. Don’t settle. If you settle, it will bite you in the butt down the road! DON’T SETTLE! Take it from me!
Sometimes you need to go through a bad situation to learn the lessons above. But keyword, learn from it! Don’t make the same mistakes. Once you realize your worth by tapping into what you stand for, you’ll see the light. Sometimes you have to go through a bad relationship to understand your worth and what you deserve. Stay strong out there! ✨✨✨
You can also watch this video Tough Talk with Tash, where I summarize the above 🙂 Click here to see the video!