In my mid to late 30’s I can finally see clearly! Cue the song by Jimmy Cliff! LOL…
But, damn, it seemed like I finally have a clear vision for myself, I am feeling grounded, and the universe feels aligned. Wow, what a release. It was the work that i do at the studio, the self-reflection, therapy, self-care, support, gratitude, presence, and hard work that got me to a good place today.
We yearn for clarity, a guiding light that illuminates our path and empowers us to seize control of our destiny. Yet, some of us feel foggy, the stars haven’t aligned, and everyday feels like a struggle. And, I totally get that. It’s OK to feel this way. Sh*t happens. Everything your feeling is valid. But, I do want to share with you today, three powerful techniques—reflect, refine, and rise—that will help you find clarity in your life, enabling you to make better decisions, set meaningful goals, and live a truly fulfilling life.
1. Reflect:
The first step in gaining clarity is to take some time to reflect. It may seem like a daunting task, but it doesn’t have to be complicated. Find a quiet place where you won’t be disturbed, and take out a journal or a piece of paper. Ask yourself some meaningful questions about your life, such as “What makes me happy,” “What are my goals,” “What are my values,” and “What do I want to achieve in life.” Write down your thoughts and feelings honestly. Reflecting on your life helps you gain insight into who you are, what you want, and what you need. A writing prompt that has helped me is the Japanese concept “Ikigai.” It is a reason for being. Check out this article on a journal prompt that I think would be really meaningful for you, here.
2. Refine:
Once you have a better understanding of your deepest desires, it’s time to refine your life. Identify the areas in your life where you’re not happy and make a plan to change them. For example, if you look at what you wrote down, and if you are currently doing something that doesn’t align with your values…try to remove that thing out of your life. For example, if you’re not happy in your job, start exploring career opportunities that align with your interests and values. If you’re not happy with your physical health, start implementing a daily exercise routine and a healthy diet. I know it’s not that easy, but refining your life requires courage, discipline, and commitment, but it’s worth it. It helps you eliminate distractions and focus on what truly matters in your life.
3. Rise:
The final step in gaining clarity is to rise above your limitations and reach for your dreams. This is where you put your plan into action and take risks. You may encounter obstacles and setbacks along the way but don’t give up. Keep moving forward, one step at a time, and you’ll eventually get to where you want to be. Those downfalls are stepping stones and learning opportunities. Just because one path closes, doesn’t mean there’s not another way. Remember that clarity is not just about knowing what you want, it’s also about taking action to make it happen. When you rise above your limitations, you inspire others to do the same.
At Dream Dance Fitness, we understand the importance of personal growth and empowerment. We believe that self-discovery is not limited to just the mind, but also extends to the body and soul. Movement is so important. When your mind or mood tells you one thing, if you just take action, your mind will catch up with your body, and your mood will change. This is what we teach at our studio. Our students experience this first hand. Through pole dance, you’ll learn to connect with your body in ways you never imagined, gaining a deeper understanding of yourself and your capabilities. Visit our studio today, and let the power of dance guide you toward a life of clarity, purpose, and joy. Together, we’ll rise above limitations and inspire others to do the same.
XOXO,
Tash
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